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"How your man treats his mother is how he is going to treat you." I will never forget being on a date with a guy who (I promise I'm not making this up) was referring to his mom as a "stupid idiot." I couldn't get out of the car fast enough when he dropped me off, and I never saw the guy again.If a guy fears his mom and then resents her, he will do that to the person he marries, even subconsciously.All men should treat their moms with kindness, respect and gratitude. But he should do that because he WANTS to do that, not because the mom expects it.No mom is perfect, but men should do the best they can to try to have the best relationship they possibly can with their mom, AND to facilitate the best relationship between their mom and their girlfriend or wife.
A wife or girlfriend will get frustrated by this and it will surely cause tension in their relationship.According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross there are five stages people go through when they suffer a loss – denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.Everyone will go through them in their own time and maybe in a different order.While all of these scenarios are heartfelt and while I can understand a guy's need to treat his mother like gold, there are differences between healthy and unhealthy mother son relationships. In other words, he will drop anything if she calls because he feels some kind of guilt.This causes huge problems with his girlfriend/wife.