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There’s been a lot of discussion about “sexless” marriages, many focusing on how to define “sexless.
Honestly, I don’t want to have to turn to a so-called “expert” or another couples’ definition of sexless — I want to determine if my relationship is sexless based on whether my sexual needs, and those of my partner, are being met.
If we can’t improve things I’m afraid I’ll be someone who will cheat, and that isn’t who I want to be.
tweet My wife, who is 7 year older than I and I love deeply, has fallen into a not uncommon phase where she has no desire for sex.
But he has point-blank refused, he just says he can’t give me any times as he apparently doesn’t know when he’ll have time off.
What this means is that whenever he is able to see me it’s on his terms and I must fit into his life, no questions asked.
What I’m missing is being desired, having the intimacy and spontaneity that we had before.
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I feel so disgusted in myself and hate myself so much.